Welcome to “The Winners Paradigm,” where we delve into the minds of those who dare to tackle life’s most challenging hurdles with unwavering determination. I’m your host, Alundas Havens, and today we journey through resilience, truth, and transformation with our esteemed guest, Alex Mont-Ros. In this no-holds-barred conversation, we unravel the layers of Alex’s life—from his early days battling instability and personal trauma to finding faith and purpose amidst the chaos.
Listen closely as Alex debunks the myths of easy success and affirms the necessity of hard-won endurance. We dissect the fanciful notions of manifesting through mere affirmations, opting instead for a present, authentic life steeped in real struggle and growth.
From the streets of Vegas to the sanctity of fatherhood and entrepreneurship, Alex embodies the principles of leading from the front, weaving his faith seamlessly into his narrative. We share our own parallel quests for stability and self-betterment; from Alundas’s marine corps recklessness to Alex’s baptism by fire in real estate and family life, leading both men to the embrace of a higher power.
Join us as we explore the indispensability of community, mentors, and the pursuit of a life filled to the brim with intention, discipline, and an unshakable commitment to transcend the fleeting lure of materialism. We invite you to engage, reflect, and uncover the power of your inner voice through The Winners Paradigm.
Timestamps:
00:00 Married 11 years, focused on leadership.
03:45 Baseball led to marriage and step-parenting.
08:39 Frequent moves led to early marriage and maturity.
09:29 Realizing immaturity and finding faith.
13:08 Leaving small towns for bigger opportunities matters.
18:12 Competitive attitude, fear drives success.
21:19 Acknowledging shared experiences, carrying a defining burden.
22:50 Our experiences are valuable for helping others.
27:40 Accept reality, seek empowerment from God.
30:27 Grateful gym, received unexpected sign.
34:36 Challenges and truth in personal growth journey.
35:52 Seeking truth and presence is crucial.
39:23 Fight selfishness, rely on faith, show gratitude.
44:58 Balancing work, family, and purpose.
48:13 Be a positive role model for kids.
51:11 Surround yourself with people who elevate you.
54:09 Join successful men’s groups, accelerate your path.
You’ll Learn:
How do Alex Mont-Ros’s experiences with instability in childhood and stepping into early responsibilities shape his approach to family and business life?
Despite skepticism towards certain self-help techniques, such as manifesting desires through gratitude, what practices does Alex recommend for those seeking guidance in their life’s path?
What role has faith played in the personal and professional growth of both Alex Mont-Ros and Alundas Havens, and how do they integrate it into their coaching and business strategies?
Can you share an instance where you felt the struggle with selfishness, and how did you seek transformation through a higher power, as discussed by Alex Mont-Ros?
The Search for Stability: “I was a kid raising kids, you know, in the sense of, like, I I think I was I’ve always been a little bit more of an older soul in general just ever since I was a kid. I think because I just had a, with everything I went through, I had to had to kinda grow up a little bit quicker.”— Alex Mont-Ros [00:09:15 → 00:09:29]
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https://www.instagram.com/alexmontros/
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